Even as a Relationship and Personal Development coach, one of the hardest things I find myself being able to do is being vulnerable. I am not talking about being a sucker and letting people walk over me,but just being open and receptive to the possibilities of allowing someone in. In my course called “The Secret Power of Women” I help women learn how to have more… engaging relationships especially with men by embracing more of their feminine energy as compared to their masculine energy. (Which I personally feel we have too much of these days) My thought process behind this was that too much masculine energy in any relationship creates competition something we seem to have way to much of in our relationships today.
Well, either way I found that I was teaching that which I needed to learn. I have spent the last 3 years looking at my difficulty with being vulnerable with family, friends, children, and lovers. I am tougher on myself than I am on any client I have ever had. I realized that super woman can be a hard bitch to kill.l But we need to continue to open our hearts with a conscious mind. What are we afraid of, being hurt? Oh like that has never happened before! Or is it being wrong, or judged, or not accepted? All just F.E.A.R (false evidence appearing real) blocking us from living the most abundant lives our hearts can desire.
Value all the possibilities of Love more than you Fear the possibilities of pain.